Friday, February 08, 2008
~ 12:27 PM ~
Amazing Discovery
I bought a book "The 5 Languages of Love" yesterday and i finished the whole book of 238 pages in less than 30 hours...amazing...and no, the words are not of big print..and no, neither is this the amazing discovery i want to talk about...^_^
Basically, there are 5 love languages (i.e. 5 ways to express and receive love to and from someone): Words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, acts of service and physical touch.
I had always thought my primary language was words of affirmation. BUt after i did the survery, to my very surprise, words of affirmation was only my secondary love language. Quality time is my PRIMARY love language, and not only that, i actaully had the highest possible score for this particular love language.....the score for my secondary love language of words of affirmation score is quite far behind this primary one...^_^
Coming to reflect back on the past 2 years....i am now convinced that my primary love language is quality time....no wonder i love one-to-one sharings....^_^
on a side note...finished reading 2 books since the beginning of this year...WOW! *gives myself a pat on the back*